I understand what you're saying. I felt the same way when I got my Ironwood 650. So, I consider wood pellets a convenient fuel and not for any flavor. Plus, the Traeger is a lot easier to clean than my smoker.
Basically, if you want the traditional (BBQ joint) smoke flavor on your meat, you'll want to use a smoke tube filled with about 80% WOOD CHIPS and 20% wood pellets. Pack it down well as you fill it and it will stay lit for 3-4 hours. I've read that meat will only take about 3.5 hours of smoke, so let it smoke the whole time.
Here is a whole discussion about smoke tubes....
https://www.traegerforum.com/threads/smoke-tubes.2593/page-3#post-35166
I've tried the charcoal pellets recently, but if I use too many in the tube, the charcoal taste is too strong. I'm going back to the hickory pellets to fill in gaps in my smoke tube.
I've recently noticed that putting the lit end of the smoke tube towards the back of my Ironwood seems to make a difference in terms of it staying lit. I tried it facing the front and it was hard to keep it lit. Maybe more air moving in the back?
Bottom line is that the smoke from burning wood pellets (compressed sawdust) doesn't taste like the smoke from actual burning wood (wood chips). So, the smoke tube adds the traditional smoke you might be after.
Good Smokin'